Mental Health Tools

Diaphragmatic Breathing

Diaphragmatic breathing, singing or humming, gargling and stimulation of a bitter taste on your tongue all have a role in stimulating the parasympathetic branch of your nervous system.


In stimulating the PNS, we break the cycle of the sympathetic nervous system (SNS) which in our society, is on overdrive.

Adapting us
to stressful stimuli or situations

The process in which it accomplishes this is that it strengthens our hearts conduction system much like how exercise works in not only in the long run, reducing blood pressure and resting heart rate but so that when we come across stressful stimuli, we can better adapt to it.


The time it will take for you to calm your nervous system after a stressful stimuli will be reduced and your perception of a stressful stimuli will change in a way where it will make you more resilient and adaptive to stressors.


In the quiet and comfort of your room or at the beach or a bustling train station. The point is to regulate your breathing and you can start by practicing it in a calmer environment. The more you train the nervous system, the better it gets. Much like practicing an instrument.


How to sit:

You can sit any which way in my opinion just as long as you do it. But ideally you want your legs parallel, both feet flat on the floor, with thighs slightly opened and chest opened with upright posture, making sure your chair is high enough for a decline in the angle of your thigh as opposed to incline or straight out. Sit up straight, as if you are squeezing something small between your shoulder blades (medial border of scapula). 



Breathe in through your nose and out through either nose or mouth. I do a combination of whatever I feel like at the moment.


Belly breathing:

If it helps, you can begin with one hand on your stomach and one on your chest. You want to breathe to fill your lower hand with your belly and exhale the same way. 

Begin with 10-minutes


If you can, do 10 minutes twice a day.


You want to work your way up of setting a goal of 20 minutes twice a day if possible.

Tools For Anxiety

EFT tapping is a combination of ancient Chinese acupressure and modern psychology, now known as energy psychology. It's an easy-to-learn technique that involves “tapping” on the meridian points of the body while repeating statements that help us focus on an issue from which we're seeking relief.

The Breathe + app allows you to choose how many seconds you want to breathe in and breathe out. Usually exhalation is about a second or 2 longer than inhalation.A good breathing rate is about 6 breaths per minute. Remember its not about breathing deeply but slowly and in a controlled manner. If you feel you are hyperventilating, you are taking too big of a breath.


Apps to download

App: Tapping method




Tools For Letting
Go Of Past trauma

What is Tension and Trauma

Release Exercises (TRE)?

A simple, innovative set of exercises that help the body release deeply held stress, tension and trauma. Following in the wake of yoga, meditation and mindfulness, TRE is growing in popularity as a means of managing stress.


Therapists that do Tension and Trauma Release Exercises (TRE)

Christine Steward:

More info:



Forms of therapy to look for:

  • Cognitive behavioural therapy

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy